The common concept wants women to make it more difficult than men. When we talk about infidelity, we do not differ so much in the end. But there are always signs to wake you up from lethargy and suspicious. We present 10 of these.
1) You see sex with the telescope
And why do you have sex, since she draws satisfaction from elsewhere? Unlike an unbelievable husband, who can share his eroticism in two or more goals, women are usually sexually engaged one at a time, the one that best suits them. You will understand that if she suddenly has no appetite for sex, she tells you that she is sleepy, caught, swollen, and other geranisms to avoid you. Sometimes it will respond to your own initiatives, not to suspect anything, but a woman who defies you will certainly not approach you first erotic. And why is it herb but mainly because her remorse does not let her do it.
2) It has stopped being mad
One would expect an unbelieving woman to be a disgruntled woman and therefore the fights should be more frequent, not more rare. However, in most cases the opposite is true. An unhappy woman who finds “consolation” in a guy’s husband, as a rule we cuddle the problems that exist with her. It’s no longer so important if you forgot to turn the water heater in front of the fact that she received flowers in the office from her admirer. She did not even look at the clock so she could shout that you were late to come back with the beers with Kostas because she spent all night talking on facebook with her new flirting. She does not get angry with the fact that you did not arrange anything for your anniversary because she is too busy arranging a hidden meeting with her lover. Suddenly, you have gone to second place. The good news is that her nagging, which you broke, has fallen. The bad news is that maybe he is beating you. What to do, in this life you can not have it all.
3) It’s beautiful
Perhaps the most classic sign of infidelity applies to both sexes. New subscriptions to gyms, weight loss, new haircut, new makeup and brand new clothes. Even more loudly she whines the bell if she remarks on her drawer and new underwear, which you have never seen worn. A lover in her life means a general renewal – internal and external – and a wonderful motivation to take care of herself. And if you suddenly see her spend twice in the morning getting ready for the office, you can have a good first picture of where this new admirer (and possibly her lover) is.
4) Distant from your near ones
Suddenly he does not want to say so with your sister, visit your parents and come home from your friends. Any woman with even a suspicion of consciousness will keep distances from your own people when she starts to begging you. Especially if they are novices in infidelity, they will not be able to manage on Thursday to snooze with her lover and Sunday to exchange tips for brood with your mom. Similarly, she will try to keep you in a distance from her own close family and friendly environment, because these meetings will be awkward now for her, but also for those who know and disapprove of her actions.
5) Keeps you at a safe distance from your cell phone
She gets the cell phone with her even to go to the café’s bathroom, has it permanently in the silence, closes it in the evenings “not to bother you” and it is understood that the lock code is not a secret seal. It is perfectly understandable that you do not want to fall so low that you crawl, but on the other hand, those about dignity and respect for personal space only make sense in normal conditions, when you realize that the other is okay to you and when there is mutual trust. Here, trust has made wings. Do you still keep the guys?
6) She wants to know your schedule
Not by pure interest in you but by pure interest in covering her back. What difference will it make if you come back from work on 5 or 6? Why suddenly she cares if you go for basketball and how the hell has it known from the outside when your team is playing? Why does he ask you what time you plan to fall to sleep? All this helps her to put wedges in her appointment day with the other as long as you are very busy and very much in your world. Do not make it easy. Wake up.
7) It reminds you of your first time
A new erotic adventure reminds someone in a long-standing relationship with the man who has long been beside her once there were passionate lovers. Asking the old, good weather, somehow justifies her actions, accusing you that you quit to be able to express yourself with her (and so you have led her to look for romance, love and passion somewhere else). So, “why do not you send me any more messages?” Comes from the fact that her cellphone is filled with messages from him. Do you remember when we went out and drank till the morning? It will come after an amazing wine-making excursion with him, which freshened her memory. And of course, the complaints about what you do not do to bed anymore may be all that puts her now in bed with him. You would love to give it to all of you so you did not have to look for it elsewhere. Or so she constantly tells herself to feel less despondent sluts than she is.