The tips published by menshealth can help a man see things more clearly. Perhaps even more mature …
The former who is still a friend
Be worried when … they often talk secretly. Regular communication brings the resurgence and secrecy is certainly suspicious.
Not when … he talks once a year with him for 15 minutes.
Your tactic: Relax and calmly say “I mind when I see you be so close. Can you explain how serious your relationship is? “Suggests Jackie Jaye Brandt, a psychotherapist at Universal City, California. You do not sound like a conqueror, you just want to know. Ultimate statements lead to indignation. Be prepared to take your hat and leave if you choose the other.
The aspiring suitor
To worry when … ignores the whole situation just in order not to conflict. Too bad for your relationship, because at some point the issue will come to light.
Not when … she just does her job and does not care who she likes or not.
Your tactic: Give some opportunities and if the situation continues, show that you feel uncomfortable. She may be the same. Offer your help. If she leaves you, she meets the guy, and as you embrace her, advise her as her boy. That is enough. If not, say “it would be better for all of us not to complain again”, Levine advises. Do not do business to play hard and crafty. They do not have to open the nose.
The overly interested boss
Be worried when … trying to do everything to please him in addition to her job.
Not when … he ‘s just a good-hearted counselor. His motives could be highly professional, and if she is happy at work, she will be happy at home, says Jeffrey Bernstein, author of Why Can not You Read My Mind? .
Your tactic: The conversation that you are going to do, make sure you have an interest in yourself and not your own suspicions. Although she has stitches for your fur, she will defend herself and will not see the negatives of her professional relationship just to get you wrong.
The former one who is still worried
about worrying when … compares you with him. If he was the one who saw it, there is a great chance that he is still repelled.
Not when … it is a small memory in her mind and only in your head has become the Middle East.
Your tactic: Say ‘I just want to be sure about us’. Although she is sure of you, she will immediately tell you that you are the man of her life. If she does not say anything, explain to her that “I’m not trying to control you. But I want to be with someone who knows what he wants. ” If he is interested in your relationship, he will try to correct things. If not, outside the door.